Brett Trainor
I've lost track of the number of times I've been out with a group of women and heard someone express something along the lines of 'I have never been out with so many incredible women before'. I've also lost track of the number of times I've been out with a group of women and heard a man exclaim, "Oooooh, girls day!" Now, there's nothing inherently 'bad' about not having a group of women to be outside with (although assuming gender is certainly harmful). What is more fascinating to me, is the uniqueness and surprise expressed in both of these remarks. After 5 years of Mountain Mentors, I almost live in a bubble where it seems normal to be surrounded by other women outside. In those moments, I am reminded that for most, seeing women leading and supporting women is, quite literally, remarkable.Somehow, despite all of the 'knowing' about how more diverse groups make better decisions and drive increased performance, we are still living in environments where the novelty of a group of women recreating together is worth remarking upon. When will that change? There's nothing wrong with being surprised, but what will it take for spaces that center women to be so commonplace that instead of stopping to comment, we just smile and get on with our day?Mountain Mentors has always been about celebrating our differences AND our collective humanity - we can't have safety until everyone feels safe, until everyone belongs, until everyone is welcome. After five years of mentorship programming, we still have a long way to go to achieving our vision of 'backcountry spaces where everyone belongs and feels safe.' One thing I know for certain is that there's nothing unique or surprising about a confident, capable woman - I've had the absolute pleasure of meeting hundreds of them over the past five years.